Reflections 2004

Just as 2003 was a year of contrast, 2004 was the same, except in the other direction. Moving back to Singapore after one year in Vancouver is not a trivial transition, but the boys took the change well in their stride; which is a lot more than can be said for Ruf and me. To say the least, we very much enjoyed our time in Vancouver – not least because of the slower pace of life, simpler in many aspects, but mainly because it allowed us to spend quality time with the boys in their formative years. The simple joys such as regular walks through the playgrounds or to/from school, scooting or cycling around family housing, strolling and playing ball besides the beautiful Kitsilano beach, and pinning up the boys’ latest masterpiece artworks.



We remember the first half of 2004 also for the many afflictions that the boys came down with – HFMD, fourth virus, wheezing coughs, but that is just part of growing up. The cycling camp in June was particularly memorable, as first Ethan and then David learnt to cycle without training wheels. Unfortunately, the Singapore weather is not conducive for cycling, although we made a good number of trips to Pasir Ris park.




The transition back to school in Singapore, thank God, was very smooth, as the boys took to their old school (Josiah Montessori) and teachers well. We were initially concerned that the more regimented system in Josiah may be too much of a contrast with the all-play environment in Lluvia preschool in UBC; but as Poh Kiang would say – we worry too much. ☺

Career-wise, 2004 turned out to be a time of consolidation for me. It was timely to catch up with my research, and be exposed to new ideas and culture. Overall, it has been a productive time, and at times, I did feel like I was a student again (school years were the golden years in many ways).

Ruf returned to her previous company and her old job, first on a part time basis, that eventually became full time, and found that things have changed over the past two years. We suppose we should not be all that surprised, as people and organizations move on, with or without us. The book “Who moved my cheese” comes to mind …

Which made me ponder, a year after our return – we had so quickly adjusted back to Singapore it is as if we had not left at all. Perhaps it is our friends, family, or just familiarity. But every now and then, David and Ethan would remind us of small details – the “snake-man” when they talk about the animals at Singapore zoo, a Wiggles song, the four seasons, snow at Grouse Mountain, or go-karting in Kelowna. I think we are all the richer for this experience.


June 2005